Funeral is an extremely stressful time for friends and family. Emotions run high and even smallest thing can lead to an outburst. It is extremely essential for the guests to behave properly and respect the rules set by the family of the deceased. According to Michael Scarpaci, manager of Scarpaci funeral home in Staten Island, funeral is a place to pay respect to the deceased, behaving or dressing inappropriately can lead to the family feeling disrespected. Here are a few tips by the experts to behave in the respectful manner at the funeral.
- Take all the care to make sure that you arrive on time:- One of the most basic tips that need to followed no matter who you are is punctuality. Arriving on time is important. It means that you not only respect the deceased but also their family members. Thus, calculate the time it would take you to reach the funeral home and add in the time for obstacles such as traffic or detours. Also take in to account the accessibility of parking or how long does it take for you to reach the place. Make sure that you reach at least ten minutes before the ceremony is about to start. In case you are late, enter quietly. Do not create any ruckus.
- Turn off your electronic devices:- Any device with its notifications sounds, even at lowest volume, disrupts a funeral ceremony. Keeping your electronic devices on ringing means that you and your time are more important than the deceased and their family. Keep your phone on silent and do not answer it during the ceremony. Wait until the ceremony is over and then answer the phone by going outside.
- Dress properly:- Dressing right is another important aspect of funeral etiquette. Traditionally, black is the color of funeral. However, if a situation arises and you are unable to wear black, find a subdued color in your wardrobe and wear it. Make sure that your attire is conservative. Avoid wearing jeans or any kind of revealing clothes. Avoid hot and happening colors such as red, yellow, orange and more. Do not wear extremely high heels. If you are confused, then think about corporate interview and wear what you would choose to wear there.
- Respect the cultural and religious choices of deceased and their family:- If you are invited to a funeral ceremony for someone who had different religious practice than you, google beforehand about it. This way you will know what to expect. It will also make you feel more relaxed.
- What to do if you have to bring your children?:- Funeral are adult events. However, if you have to bring in your children, make sure you talk to them beforehand so they know how to behave and what to expect. Tell them that they will have to sit quietly and not to talk during ceremony.
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