How To Deliver A Great Eulogy?

Losing a loved one is the hardest thing in the world to deal with. Michael Scarpaci, a stakeholder of Scarpaci Funeral Home, says that even though they organize a dozen funerals and memorial services every month, they still find it hard to see a family losing their loved ones. He mentions that death is inevitable, which is true. If there is anything that’s certain in our life is our death.

If you have lost a loved one recently, it must be an extremely stressful time for you and the deceased’s family. But the best way to cope with the death of a loved one is to celebrate their life one last time. Funerals and memorial services are a great way to say a final goodbye to them while celebrating the deceased’s rich and beautiful life. If you have gotten the honor of delivering a eulogy at the funeral service, you can make the best use of this opportunity to honor the life of the deceased.

Michael Scarpaci says, “A eulogy is a lot more than just a few words.” He further adds, “We see many people delivering a eulogy at funerals every day, and it’s something that shows how much you cared about the deceased and what kind of the bond you two shared.” Moreover, whatever you say in your eulogy will stay with the bereaved family forever. Therefore, it’s important to deliver a great eulogy that touches hearts and does not offend anybody.

Here are some tips to help you write a great eulogy

• Prepare your notes well in advance

Delivering a eulogy is a big thing. Therefore, you do not want to take it for granted. Make sure you spend time in writing one. Always prepare notes of what you are going to say, even if you plan to ditch your notes while delivering. It’s a great way to focus on your thoughts and ensure you are not missing anything important.

• Be personal and conversational 

This is not a formal speech; it’s an honor. You are getting an opportunity to share how you feel and how much the deceased touched your life.

• Don’t shy away from taking help 

Writing and delivering a eulogy can be extremely stressful. After all, it’s not easy to lose a loved one. Therefore, it’s okay to take help from your friends and family. This will also give you support and encouragement to keep going.

Remember, people attending the funeral share some memories with the deceased. So don’t forget to address them.